I Want My Husband To Dress As A Woman Permanently
It takes a lot of nerve to say something like this in a public forum, but I’m worried my relationship might end if I don’t discuss how I feel with someone else. My husband and I have been together five years now, and he’s always had his feminine side.
It used to be subtle just some makeup here or there but over the past couple of years, it’s become much more pronounced that he wants to transition into being female permanently. I love him dearly, but I’m having difficulty accepting what he wants from me.
The wife wants her husband to be a female.
I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me. He had always been interested in cross-dressing and was only interested in me sexually when I dressed up as his dream girl.
When he told me about his interest, I thought it was a fantasy and never imagined that he would be unfaithful. However, now that I know what has happened and why I realize how common cheating is between spouses with different sexual desires.
The question is: Is there any way for us to work through our issues; Do you think he can be convinced to be more feminine so we can stay together; Or should I just let him go and move on;
Husband agrees
Even if your partner agrees, they may not stick with it. People often decide to help others change their behavior but, in reality, are not committed.
If you ask someone close enough, you can probably get an honest answer on whether they intend to follow through on their promise or if they will find a way out of it.
For example, you might be surprised how many people don’t like going to bed at night and use that reason alone for not exercising! I would say that 95% of people who claim they are going to exercise will give up within 90 days.
So being able to identify excuses ahead of time and working through them is essential when trying to motivate anyone into making changes they don’t want to make. When encouraging others, it’s also necessary to focus on what other rewards there are besides just losing weight.
It could be saving money by eating healthy food or buying new clothes once they fit better. Whatever it is, make sure you frame things positively instead of negatively.
Remember that we all have different priorities, so finding something rewarding for your spouse will go a long way toward helping him stay motivated. It’s possible: You never know until you try!
Some people have no interest in doing anything differently until they see results firsthand. For some, seeing results may mean dropping five pounds; for others, it might mean losing 50 pounds.
The best thing to do is set goals together and work towards achieving them together. This helps keep both parties accountable and motivates everyone to keep going even when things aren’t perfect.
Husband starts cross-dressing.
Many husbands find themselves struggling with their cross-dressing desires. It’s difficult for a man who feels like one side of his conflicts with his true nature.
He knows that being on his wife’s arm at social functions isn’t something he truly wants. It goes against what he feels like doing, and it goes against what he needs emotionally from life.
Wife starts participating
If you’re looking for ways to spice up your marriage, you may not have considered changing genders. However, in some circumstances, dressing in drag could be precisely what’s needed.
Any professional gender bender will tell you that being trans is about having fun. If there’s one thing that never gets old, it’s a newlywed couple trying new things.
You may even enjoy wearing women’s clothing yourself or perhaps see your wife dressed up with different eyes no matter what happens when you start cross-dressing, make sure to keep communicating and have fun!
What would you do?
Is it okay if your wife asks you to wear women’s clothing for an extended period; What if she also asked you to shave off all your body hair and become her sex slave; Would that be okay too; If so, what are some realistic ways to ensure you keep a healthy work-life balance in such an unconventional situation;
These are just a few questions you might need to ask yourself before making any final decisions. You may find yourself asking these questions on more than one occasion. Let’s face it: married life isn’t always easy. But with open communication, love, and support from both parties, there’s no reason why everyone can’t have their needs met.
The results, thus far
Well, where do I begin; This change has brought me more joy than I could have imagined. The most important thing that has come out of it is our relationship. Before, we had grown distant, and maybe once or twice a month, we would have sex, and even then, it wasn’t all that great. Now, our marriage is better than ever, and I can hardly keep up with him.
My wife’s sexual appetite is insatiable, which makes my job of making her happy all that much easier because now it’s two times per day and sometimes three!
She dresses every morning for work and will casually show up wearing lingerie for no reason other than feeling like it. Sometimes she’ll call off an appointment to stay home in her underwear!
Conclusion
Suppose you genuinely feel your husband should be dressed as a female, causing you and your relationship issues. In that case, I don’t see how there can be any other solution for him to have medical care to transition.
A transgender man is a male assigned female at birth but identified as male or does not identify with either gender. He may also use male pronouns.
Since physical changes occur in the body during the transition, consider what he will do about hormone replacement therapy (HRT) if he’s already had children or if he’d like to have more in the future.
